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Opinion Piece Written by Leslie Campos of Well Parents with Introduction by Rian Gordon
Because of today’s highly divisive and antagonistic socio-political climate, it is more important now than ever that our children learn how to engage in their communities in a positive and healing way. One possibility for this is through service and community volunteering. Volunteering is associated with a wide variety of benefits for both individuals and communities. These benefits include higher levels of empathy, emotional regulation, and moral reasoning (Metzger et al., 2018), and a collective sense of belonging (Gray & Stevenson, 2020). Furthermore, research suggests that parents play an important role in young people’s volunteering habits since children learn civic engagement and responsibility from their parents (White, 2021). Because of this, I was thrilled when Leslie reached out to me with these suggestions for family volunteering opportunities. I invite you to consider her suggestions as well as brainstorm with your family how you can use your unique perspectives, talents, and skills to get involved in making this world and your community a better place!
Do Good Together
Giving back is better when you do it together. Whether it’s banding together with neighbors to clean up litter or recruiting friends for a charity 5K, there’s something special about building community while improving the community. Positive leadership requires a commitment to optimism and the ability to collaborate with others.
My favorite way to get involved is to do it as a family. Seeing the pride in a child’s face when he knows he’s made a difference is nothing short of magical, and it’s a great way to reinforce the values you hold as a family.
Since many organizations only accept volunteers age 16 and older, it can be challenging to find charitable work your whole family can get involved in. Rather than hunting for organizations that can accommodate you, why not create your own volunteer opportunities? Here are a few ideas I love.
1. Create Homeless Care Packages
If you live in anything but the tiniest of towns, there’s a good chance there are people living without homes right in your community. While we tend to have a lot of assumptions about why people are homeless, one thing is indisputable: People without homes are living much harder lives than we are.
Your family can make a difference in the lives of homeless community members by distributing care packages. Stock care packages with items that are highly portable, like socks, bandaids, baby wipes, a toothbrush, feminine hygiene products, and trail mix. It’s best to avoid mouthwash or hand sanitizer that contains alcohol.
2. Plant a Row for the Hungry
It’s common for backyard gardeners to end up with more produce than they can eat. Giving the excess to neighbors is a friendly gesture, but you can make a bigger impact by planting an entire garden row for food-insecure community members.
Before you start planning your garden, call your local food pantry to make sure they can accept donated food. Then, all you have to do is plant and tend your garden until harvest time and bring your haul to the donation site! Your kids will love learning about fresh fruits and vegetables, and you’ll know your hard work helped other families put a healthy dinner on their table.
3. Donate Your Excess
Are your kids’ closets bursting at the seams with toys they haven’t touched in months? What about your own closet or the garage and attic? Most of us hold onto belongings thinking we’ll use them some day, but that clutter could be doing good somewhere else.
Donating your lightly used items to charity is a great way to make a difference and declutter your home at the same time. Get your kids involved by asking them to collect toys, books, and clothes they no longer use, and do the same in your storage areas. Rather than dropping things off at the closest thrift store, some of which might be for-profit stores, consider donating to a domestic violence shelter or a thrift store owned and operated by a nonprofit.
4. Host a Pet Food Drive
Most kids adore pets, but unfortunately, animal shelters typically only accept adult volunteers due to the risks of working with animals. But just because you can’t volunteer at the shelter doesn’t mean you and your kids can’t make a difference for pets in need.
Help your kids organize a pet food drive for a local animal shelter or pet food pantry. Local pet stores are great sites for a one-day drive; the store benefits from increased business, and donors have a convenient way to contribute. While a manned booth is the best way to generate excitement, you can also solicit donations by placing collection bins at your church, community center, school, or office. Check out these tips from Best Friends Animal Society for more advice on organizing a pet food drive.
While making a difference is a worthy cause, that’s not the only reason to volunteer as a family. Getting involved in charitable work as a family is also a great way to instill strong values in your children. And as busy as we all are, taking the time to lead by example is always worthwhile.
Sit down with your family and brainstorm together ways that you can volunteer in your community. Write down a list of needs in your community. Then write down a list of your individual and family strengths. How can your strengths help meet the needs of your community? Make a plan to serve together!
References
Gray, D., & Stevenson, C. (2020). How can “we” help? Exploring the role of shared social identity in the experiences and benefits of volunteering. Journal of Community & Applied Social Psychology, 30(4), 341–353. https://doi.org/10.1002/casp.2448
Metzger, A., Alvis, L.M., Oosterhoff, B., Babskie, E., Syvertsen, A., & Wray-Lake, L. (2018). The intersection of emotional and sociocognitive competencies with civic engagement in middle childhood and adolescence. Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 47, 1663–1683. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10964-018-0842-5
White, E. S. (2021). Parent values, civic participation, and children’s volunteering. Children and Youth Services Review, 127, 106115–. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.childyouth.2021.106115